Last Monday I went to a worship and teaching time with Paul Baloche that was hosted at Saddleback. I've always been a big fan of Paul Baloche because early on he has helped resource worship leaders to be better leaders and musicians. I can remember sitting in my living room as a teenager watching Paul's instructional acoustic guitar VHS. Paul has been at the same church for 20 years, which is an incredible task, but when coupled with the fact that in that time he has become a well-known worship leader, songwriter, and clinician, it's even more impressive.
When I heard Paul was going to be as Saddleback I didn't want to miss the opportunity to hear him speak. Paul led us in a time of worship for about 30min and in the time I'm not sure that we sang one song, but that is a different story. At the end of our worship time I felt the Holy Spirit speak something to me and I wrote it in my phone:
"We need God to expand our capacity to be in His presence. We need to practice being in God's presence. Like prayer, when out of practice, it's hard and the temptation is to quit, but push through."
Our time of worship was so sweet. The Holy Spirit was, I'm sure, speaking to people all over the room as He spoke to me; which is exactly what He wants to do. We don't, I know I don't, take enough time to just "be" in God's presence. If there is 30 seconds of silence many of us get anxious. The reason for this is we have not built up that muscle.
God will help us! The more we are able to practice being with Him, our ability to take in God, hear His voice, and respond to Him will increase.
I use the word practice on purpose. I've always told my worship teams and choirs that if you are going to make a mistake, practice is the time for it. When you're learning something, you need practice time. When we're learning to be in God's presence, we need time when we can close the windows and doors, lock ourselves in a room and worship without feeling self-conscious.
So, this is my suggestion to all of us. Let's schedule a time where we can worship God without anyone around (except maybe your spouse or closest friend). You can play an instrument or just sing some songs -- worship God and see where it takes you. If it's helpful, make a CD or playlist of your favorite worship songs. Make sure you include songs that don't get really loud, so you have the opportunity to sit with God in the quietness of the moment.
How long you do this for is up to you. It's ok to start with a shorter time and let yourself grow into it. It's not about quantity as much as it is quality.